Hey Single Friend,

Welcome to everything you've been looking for. You belong here. You are needed here. You are not alone.

The single life can feel really lonely.

There seem to be support groups for everyone else, we often "lose" friends to marriage, our family doesn't know what to say ... and church? Well, church can be the loneliest place of all.

But guess what my friend...you are anything but alone. There are thousands of women just like you! Women who love God, are awesome, have good desires, have great days and hard days, and also have lots of questions.

Has God forgotten me? Where is my place in the church? I'm actually really content, is that ok? Am I doing something wrong? Where are all the good men? Have I messed up my chances? Should I contact the dude who ghosted me 2 weeks ago....?! (Hint: NO)

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Introducing...

NOT ALONE

A Free Community for Single Christain Women

Not only are you not alone, but there is nothing wrong with you or your life.

Let me say that again for the girls in the back, THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU OR YOUR LIFE.

What if all the single women today started to believe that?

How might that change you, help you embrace God's calling on your life now, make you a woman who attracts higher quality men, and create a culture shift within the church?

Not Alone is an online gathering place (we use a private Facebook Group) of women committed to bringing Glory to God with their life, their bodies, and their dreams, now and in every phase of their life.

WHEN YOU JOIN NOT ALONE YOU WILL GET

COMMUNITY

Having a rough day? Dude ghost you? Not sure if you should break up with your boyfriend? Your mom told you again that you might be being too picky? Need to laugh at the absurdity of the date you just went on? Struggling with a sexless life?

Within the facebook community, you can be seen, understood, prayed for, and encouraged in the good days and bad.

MENTORSHIP LIVE

I, Rebekah, go live once a month in the private Facebook Group and offer mentorship of key topics. From time to time we will also have guest mentors!

I've been leading women as a biblical counselor, Professional Life Coaching, and Speaker for 15+ years. So we can get technical and therapeutic (to some degree.) On a personal level, I got married at 39, survived a lot of heartbreaks along the way, and fought deeply to live a celibate life until I was married.

Mentorship topics range from: Dealing with Rejection, to Being Made for Adventure, How to Protect Your Heart & Put Yourself Out There, and more.

MONTHLY

VIRTUAL MEET UPS

Every month we gather virtually to discuss a hot topic. I act as a moderator and together, you'll always come up with the most amazing thoughts, ideas, and even solutions.

Things like: Singleness is not a period of waiting but rather God's specific plan but how and why? Or... How to know when to put yourself out there and when not to. And... How to make big life decisions without a partner.

TRAVEL OPPURTUNITIES

A unique gift of singlness is often more time and the ability to see the world... but not many people want to do that alone.

NOT ALONE members have access to global travel with other single, Christain women. These trips are affordable, expertly planned, and will be the highlight of your year.

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I'M

REBEKAH

You might be wondering how I know you so well already. Well, because I am you. Or, I should say, I was you. For 20 years. I got married (and had sex for the first time) one year ago at the age of... drum roll please...39.

Being raise in an evangelical church with a strong faith (and just being a noraml human!) I definaly wanted to get married and have kids way before 39.

Over the 2 decades of being single I never once felt there was a place of support, I never felt truly understood, and more importantly, I never felt that God's chosen plan for my life was celebrated or activated.

And that my friends is why I started Not Alone. To change all that... FOR YOU!

"Before I found Not Alone I honestly felt like I was the one life in my friend group. I felt stuck. Now I realize that I'm right where I should be and I'm loving it!"

Dina Porters

"There is such power in being understood! I could read the posts in the community and laugh all day. I feel like Jesus hugs me and say "see, you've got this.'"

Petra Shrew

WHO IS NOT ALONE RIGHT FOR?

Are you single? Single again? Single with kids? Single never been married? Are you 24 or older? (Dating and engaged welcome, but no married women allowed.)

Do you love the God of the Bible, what to get back to your faith, or want to learn more about being a follower of Jesus?

Do you want to laugh, learn, cry, feel seen, grow in your faith, and lean into God's plan for your life?

Do you roll your eyes at the shallow teaching and Christianese phrases that well-meaning people give you when you try to reach out for support?

Maybe you are pretty happy being single, and just want to meet other happy, single, Christian women!

Well then... yes, NOT ALONE IS FOR YOU!

FAQ'S

So it's really free?

What is your Statement of Faith?

Do I have to have Facebook for the Community?

JOIN TODAY it's completely FREE!

How is it possible that this community is free, you ask? Well, the long-term plan for Not Alone is that it will offer a free level of membership and a premium level. Also, we are planning to add an annual LIVE gathering!

But those "paid options" are a year or so away and there will always be a "free membership" option. That is what we are starting with, to serve you and to build our community.

So jump in, and text all your single friends to jump in with you. It is honestly, 100% free.

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