6 things to do when everything changes

In the last month, It feels like almost everything in my life has changed. The state I live in, the church I attended, the grocery store I shop at. So much of my day-to-day life—my morning routine, my rhythms, even my sense of familiarity—has been turned upside down.

Six months ago, if you had asked me if I thought I’d be where I am now, I would have said, “Absolutely not.” But here I am. Why? Because when we sincerely pray for God’s will, He often leads us to places that shake up our sense of comfort and security.

When all the predictable becomes unpredictable overnight, when all the things we find our identity in shift overnight, when the rhythms and routines we had established to nourish ourselves get shaken up overnight… it’s hard. Really hard. Even if it’s good… it’s hard.

If you’ve ever experienced a season of big transition, you know how disorienting it can be. It’s hard to be patient, to rest well, to stay present, and to feel deeply connected to yourself and to God. But in the midst of the upheaval, I’ve found a few things that have helped me navigate these changes with grace and I want to share them with you tonight. I have a feeling some of you need this as much I have needed it!

 1. Accept That Things Will Be Unsettled for a While
Say it out loud: “I prefer things to be in order, but for this season, they won’t be. I won’t always be able to predict or prepare for tomorrow. But that’s okay. I’ll do what needs to be done, and I’ll find my footing in time.” Surrendering to the season rather than resisting it brings unexpected peace.

2. Go Into ‘Get It Done’ Mode (But Don’t Stay There Too Long)
For my sisters who cherish slowness and stillness, these seasons can feel overwhelming. But sometimes, we have to embrace the practical and just get through the day. When I was in the thick of moving, I reminded myself: You’re not going to sleep in your own bed, have your perfect cup of coffee, or get much alone time for a while—and that’s okay. Do what needs to be done. You are strong. And you are, too.

3. Remind Yourself of What Is Still the Same
When the changes started to feel overwhelming, I took time to list what was staying the same: My husband and I are still us. God is still my refuge. I can always find Him in the pages of my journal. My family is still my family. The enemy wants us to believe that everything is crumbling, but the truth is, many of the most important things in our life and faith remain unchanged. Spend some time naming what those are. Even if you something as huge as your family is being taken away from you... with some effort you can find the most important things are still the same. 

4. Ask Yourself: Who Do I Want to Be in This New Season?
Every transition is an opportunity to become more of who God has called us to be and to learn and grow. Whether you’re moving, starting a new job, stepping into motherhood, or facing an unexpected challenge—take a moment to ask yourself: Who do I want to be in this season? For me, the answer was clear: I want to stay rooted in Christ, walk in peace, and remain deeply connected to my family and friends. A new season is really a great mercy from God in that it allows us to apply what we've learned and transform more into His likeness. So choose that, on purpose. 

5. Be Proud of Yourself
Stepping into the unknown requires trust—both in God and in yourself. Walking forward without all the answers is brave. Even if you’re trembling with fear, if you believe it’s what God wants you to do, take the step. And when it’s done, allow yourself to process it all. Cry if you need to... because well, following truth instead of fear is a victory in itself. A victory of rare beauty, that kind of beauty that makes one cry. 

6. Find Your Home in the Lord
No matter where I am—geographically, relationally, financially, or emotionally—there is one place that always feels like home: the presence of God. There, I find refuge, comfort, and a love that remains unchanged. It is in the throne room where I behold Him and He is that same yesterday, today and forever. He invites me to be held and I feel the same embrace I’ve felt for decades, across jobs, states, singleness and marriage.

Do you know the presence of God like this? A real place of home? A place of safety and comfort no matter where you are? Can you get there quickly?

Sweet friend, some seasons shake us up, don’t they? If you’re walking through one right now, I just want to remind you: God is with you. He sees you. And He will sustain you.

Did this resonate with you today? What did you need to hear most? I’d love to know—just hit reply and share.

From Texas with love,
Rebekah