When I was 38, I entered my second major season of doubt and deconstruction. It was about six months before I met my now husband. Being in my "late 30's" and still never married was hitting me hard, yet again.

I started listening to all sorts of progressive voices that promised freedom from anythin...

We all want to help people when they're having a tough day. Especially when it’s a loved one or someone close to us. It can be alarming, frustrating, and produce a reaction in us when they are… “off.” However, our well-meaning attempts to make them feel better often backfire and make things worse. T...

In the last month, It feels like almost everything in my life has changed. The state I live in, the church I attended, the grocery store I shop at. So much of my day-to-day life—my morning routine, my rhythms, even my sense of familiarity—has been turned upside down.

Six months ago, if you had aske...

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I never thought I’d need this kind of bravery again. The kind that makes my stomach drop. The kind that makes me feel like a freshman all over again. You’d think by 42, I'd be past the season of “starting over.”

And yet, here I am again. New job, new town, new church. Feeling a bit unkn...

In a world where self-help books line our shelves and mental health resources are just a click away, it's easy to fall into the trap of relying solely on our own efforts to find happiness and fulfillment. While "all the things" can offer valuable tools and strategies, they can never replace the powe...

(The blog was written in 2018)

Like a rising tide, something started to swell within me, so slowly that I didn’t even realize it was happening.  

It lapped at the bottom of my mind. Small rivers made their way into my heart. I noticed it when my words were soaked with disdain.

A disrespect of men...

#Hustle #Slay #Grind.

I’m in the middle of launching my own business. Well, by the time you read this, it will be up and running! There are endless things to be done. Write this, print that, post this, look up that, file that document, learn more about this thing and that thing, write some more, pu...

I know you. The one who clicked on this link, hoping to read something here that will affirm your current relationship or the one you want to be in.

I am you. Or at least I was.

The girl who loves God and has an honest-to-goodness desire to be married, to be a wife and a mom. The one who has been ...

Can I ask you something…are you growing?

 If you aren’t, I bet your life feels a bit blah. A bit empty. Kind of passionless. I can imagine there might even be a small hint of lingering guilt. Why? Because you know you were made for more.

I’m sure you are busy. I’m sure you are capable. I’m sure yo...

I like to help women get untangled.

I do it for myself all the time. If something is off I dig, pray, journal, and talk to friends until I figure out what’s going on inside me or around me.

I’m always about freedom, depth, and real living. I literally don’t really know the to go about life.

That’...

We all have those moments when we feel a gentle nudge in our hearts, a calling to something new. Maybe it's a desire to hit the gym, join a church group, embark on a new journey, or even start a business.

Perhaps the new season is thrown at us, without our permission. We have to start a new job. Mo...

Living in alignment with who God says we are and the work He created us for not only brings fulfillment but also allows us to make that positive impact on the Kingdom that we all crave.

In today's busy world, so many women grapple with questions about their purpose and calling because we are so bus...